Is It Time for a Sleep Divorce? Let’s Talk About It
The concept of a ‘sleep divorce’ might catch you off guard, but don’t let the dramatic title fool you – there’s no need for a
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57%
of adult men are affected by snoring*
40%
of adult women are affected by snoring*
59%
of snorers actually report that they snore
*Schwab, R. J. (2020, June). Merck Manual Professional Version: Snoring. Retrieved July 24, 2020
A lot of our clients come to us because they’re dealing with a snoring partner and are worried, frustrated and sleep deprived. It’s not unreasonable to want some help, so you can get some rest.
Sometimes our loved ones are convinced that snoring is normal, and it can be, but since you’re here, it probably isn’t. If you’ve noticed the symptoms we listed, you’re right in thinking it’s time to get checked out.
When telling your partner they need to look into their sleep issues, it’s easy to go into the conversation with an edge. After all, you’re not sleeping. It’s probably sensitive for them too. Instead of taking up your armour, here’s what we would suggest.
No one is at their best in the morning after a terrible sleep. Our advice? Broach the topic after dinner (or at least after everyone’s had a coffee).
If given the choice, they probably wouldn’t choose to snore, so go easy on them. Also, they probably don’t feel that great either. Their snoring affects their sleep quality, too.
Sometimes our partners don’t realize the full extent of the issue, or the impact their sleep is having on others.
Position the conversation as one of concern for their health and wellbeing. Help your partner understand the negative impact sleep disorders have on their health, their ability to function while awake, and their happiness.
Bring some of your own ideas to the table, so the conversation is constructive. Discuss sleeping positions and nighttime habits. Better yet, offer to book a sleep consultation you can both attend.
Without piling on, share how their snoring impacts your days, as well as your ability to be the partner you want to be.
The concept of a ‘sleep divorce’ might catch you off guard, but don’t let the dramatic title fool you – there’s no need for a
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From how they look to how they sound, we know a CPAP machine can feel intimidating. We’ve been there ourselves (did you know Sleep Therapeutics was founded by a respiratory therapist and his sister, a nurse, who both suffered from untreated sleep apnea?) So, we’re living proof that you can face the music—or the machine, as the case may be!—and come out better for it on the other side.
If you have a question or concern about your partner’s sleep problems, give us a call.
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